For years, I could never orgasm. At first, I thought it was from lack of experience, so I very understandably and maturely went out to have a little fun with a lover or two Each of these lovers rode into my bedroom as if mounted upon white stallions. They had the sheen of a twinkle in their eyes and an impishly buoyant hope that they could be the "one" — the one to pull the infamous sword out of my very frigidly set stone. The one to give me an orgasm. When lack of experience was no longer in question, I figured I should dig a little deeper and stray onto the path less taken. I thought, what could the harm be?
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Types of Orgasms and How to Achieve Them
This article is part of the Beducated Female Orgasm Series. You can browse all 8 Female Orgasms here. When it comes to pleasure, there are many doors that lead to orgasms. One of the most overlooked doors, is the back door, a. What is an anal orgasm? Is that even possible? There are often two reactions to the anal orgasm.
How to Have an Anal Orgasm: 35 Tips for You and Your Partner
But they exist, and with a little awareness and attention, you can get the Os you deserve, from the fireworks-on-display kind to the calm oh-my-gods. When you find yourself missing out on the Big O, there are three likely culprits: expectations, communication, and method. And alongside all of that, experimenting is required. The clitoris is a small organ with a lot of nerve endings that peeks out from the tiptop of the vulva, is often covered by a hood, and extends down the inside of the labia. The best way to stimulate the clitoris is by gently rubbing with the fingers, palm, or tongue in a back and forth or circular motion.
Full disclosure: I have had anal sex before, and I hated it. Clearly, I wasn't doing it right. You shouldn't just be a receptacle for someone else's good time. I deserve to come, too.